Noting the adventures in the lesser known but growing field of art therapy.
Saturday, January 08, 2022
Sunday, January 02, 2022
Are you a Creative? Guest Blog from a Creativity Coach and Counselor
A Letter to Creative People
Dear Artist Drawing in the Margins of your Papers,
Dear College Student at your Easel Late at Night in an Empty Studio,
Dear Musician Rehearsing the Same Two Measures and Stumbling for the Thousandth Time,
I see you.
Dear Little Heart Wearing all the Colors to School because they are in your Soul,
Dear Parents Believing in the Little Hearts and Quietly Worrying if Others Will See the Beauty or Try to Tear them Down,
I see you.
Dear High Schooler Feeling Feelings so Big You Might Burst while Trying to Express yourself through Poetry and Feeling Overwhelmed by What Comes out,
I see you.
Dear High Achieving Adults with High Achieving Jobs with the Weight of the World on your Shoulders but Creativity in your Heart,
Dear Adults who Wonder if it is “Too Late” if you are “Enough” and have Spent your Lives Prioritizing the Needs of others before Yourselves,
I see you.
Dear Parents who Struggled for Acceptance as you Fought for Authenticity in the World and now Ache Watching your Children doing the Same,
I see you.
Dear Creative Professionals Struggling to Break the Surface and Tread Water of Financial Sustainability in Shark Infested Waters for the Sake of your Passions,
I see you.
Dear Writer Staring at a Blinking Cursor as Time Ticks by with a Book in your Heart but no Words in your Mind,
Dear Performer Sitting at Another Casting Call Full of Talent Hoping this is Finally the Time you Stand Out,
I see you.
Dear Painter Scrolling through Hundreds of Accomplished Artists Online while your Canvas Sits Empty or Unfinished Beside You,
Dear Adult who is too Burnt Out by Their Day Job to Make Art but that is all you Really Want to be Doing as the Years Continue to Go By,
I see you.
I see and know your struggles. I know that the world is failing you, overwhelming you and leaving you behind in their efforts to help. I know that your experiences and needs are unique and special.
My experiences were like this, too. I felt the loneliness and helplessness that come with Creativity. But- I believed in the importance of my creativity. Just like I believe in the importance of yours. You have the potential to change the future for the better. Your future. The future for all of us.
Your creativity is everything you need. I have dedicated my career to understanding this to be true. To understanding your needs as a Creative Person, and the inner workings of your Creative Personality. I have built a philosophy to support you in your life. I know you can experience ease and success in your life with the creative gifts you were born with.
Creativity Counseling is founded upon your natural strengths as a Creative Person. When you understand your strengths, and harness them in healthy and productive ways, you will live a life filled with ease.
Your natural creative strengths, when they serve you, are so powerful that as surely as when they are aimless they are destructive, when they are focused in healthy and productive ways, are massively life changing.
In Creativity Counseling, you become intimately acquainted with and empowered by your Creative Personality. You learn how powerful emotions, drive towards meaning making and authenticity, and more, are important and stabilizing forces. You learn practical, real-life tools to embrace, not suppress, how you experience the world. You understand that your key to happiness is true authenticity with yourself and the world around you.
Creativity Coaching is the gift creative flow that comes when you embrace your creative identity fully. Does your soul demand that you write? Make music? Paint? Dance? Unlock your true potential by claiming yourself fully as a writer, musician, artist, or dancer.
No more “when’s” or “if’s” or other rules- if your soul demands a creative expression- embrace it with a passion! Experience clarity and ease when you give yourself permission to actualize what your creative soul desires of you.
This permission is your first step to finding the “North Star” you will use for making daily decisions in your life. Creative flow comes from the purposefulness in knowing where you are going. It allows you to make aligned decisions that serve your greater purpose, and live a life filled with meaning. Creative flow builds from regular creative practice as you continue to making meaning from your life experiences with your art. These are some of the most important aspects of Creativity Coaching!
Dear Creative Looking for Help because you are Hurting,
Dear Creative Looking for Help from Someone who Knows how to help you with your Creativity but also accepts your Creativity Might always be a Struggle that No-one Understands,
I see you.
Sometimes your hurt and struggle are your heart and soul showing up for what truly matters to you in your life. I believe your creativity truly matters, and is your most important healing and stabilizing force.
I have experienced this to be true in my own life, in my research, in my education, and with hundreds of Creative People I have listened to and worked with.
I am passionate about the future of the world as only you, Dear Creative, can dream it.
I know you feel deeply. I dare you not to stop. It is my passion to help and support you. If you believe I can help, I would love to talk to you about what I can offer.
Love,
Cindy
(c) 2021 Creatively, LLC, Cindy Cisneros, LCPC-S, LPC, Creativity Coach
Cindy Cisneros is a Creativity Coach and Creativity Counselor and Professional Artist in Sykesville, Maryland. She provides Online Creativity Counseling in Maryland and Virginia, and Online Creativity Coaching throughout the USA, Canada and the UK.
Saturday, January 01, 2022
Friday, December 17, 2021
Gratitude Journal for Teen Boys Hits the Market
Congratulations to my friend Lauren Blanchard Zalewski, whose first book released November 30 on the heels of the Thanksgiving holiday when we focus particularly on gratitude A great gift for your teenage boy or to use with your clients. Please check it out, especially during this holiday season!
Read more behind the story of Lauren's book here.
From Lauren:
**Have you ordered your copy of my new book "5-Minute Gratitude Journal for Teen Boys" yet?**
Unlike other GRATITUDE journals on the market, this book contains 120 pages of unique topics designed to help today's teen find inspiration, appreciation, and their personal greatness through gratitude.
Gratitude is a powerful tool for teens dealing with school stress, friend drama, and the pressures of social media. Taking time to focus on the good stuff can boost their self-confidence and help them achieve their goals. This gratitude journal provides easy exercises that will help teen boys commit to gratitude and put them in charge of their life and emotions.
With the release date on November 30, each order helps raise the visibility of my book on Amazon to ensure that it gets into the hands of anyone looking for a way to help the teen in their life feel happier and more motivated.
Thanks for your support!!!
To ORDER your copy, go to: https://amzn.to/3qrig9p
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
Teen Mental Health Society Hosts Lacy Mucklow for Art Therapy Workshop
Happy to be presenting an art therapy workshop to the Teen Mental Health Society this weekend! Thanks to Aayushi Kulsunge for inviting me to contribute a small part to this great organization she founded to reach teens with mental health support!
REGISTER HERE
Wednesday, November 24, 2021
Wake Up with Gratitude Podcast Features Lacy Mucklow
Many thanks to Julie Boyer, Gratitude Guru at #WakeUpwithGratitudePodcast for having me on her show! I am grateful to be your guest, talking about art therapy and more!
Episode #151 – How Does Creating Art Give Us a Way to Deal with Trauma? (Lacy Mucklow)
Have you ever used coloring books for adults? Chances are you might have colored in one of Lacy Mucklow’s books! Lacy is a registered, board certified, and licensed Art Therapist in the Washington, DC area. She’s also the bestselling author of the Color Me Series, including Color Me Grateful. Her books have been translated into more than 15 languages. We talk about what Art Therapy is, how she became an author and why you should never give up on your blog!
Apple podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/151-how-does-creating-art-give-us-a-way-to-deal/id1490786349?i=1000540506997
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5RxwGyXQ5lOWf6clGpckLQ?si=VJhK9j1gTh6cZ_1Gj6CUzA
Tuesday, November 23, 2021
The Healing Power of Art - Healing Arts Exhibit
It's amazing to see all the artwork submitted for the Healing Arts Exhibit, hosted annually at Walter Reed by the Arts in Health program.
Photo By Bernard Little | Service members look at art included in the Healing Arts Exhibit on display throughout... read more
Wednesday, November 17, 2021
The Art Therapy Program at NDMU
I'm so happy to be a supervisor for NDMU's graduate art therapy program. My intern Em is a great ambassador for art therapy, and she is a wonderful spokesperson to be featured in the video for their program.
Sunday, October 24, 2021
Color Me Books Translated into Multiple Languages
I am still amazed at what has come from the coloring books that I wrote with Angela's illustrations and how global they really became. From what I know, the books have been translated into numerous languages, including the following:
Color Me Calm:
French, German, Korean, French, Arabic, Norwegian, Chinese (Simplified and Complex characters), Bulgarian, Russian, Japanese, Portuguese, Swedish, Spanish, Estonian
Color Me Happy:
Korean, French, Bulgarian, Portuguese, Chinese, Spanish, Swedish, French
Color Me Stress-Free:
French, Chinese, Norwegian, Spanish, Swedish, German
A couple of days ago, I got two boxes from my publishing company with some editions of these translated books. It's hard to describe the feeling to see your words translated into multiple languages around the world.
Please comment on the pictures below if they are in your native language! I would love to hear from you!
Tuesday, October 19, 2021
Artists are not Athletes
This is something that especially applies to art therapy. We talk about it often in session, especially in groups where people tend to compare their creative output with others in the group. Artistic skill is not needed to benefit from art therapy, and we work a lot on not putting value judgments on what they create - for others or themselves. People have all kinds of various experiences, talents, exposure, and interest levels in art, and each piece people create is unique and individualized to them. There is no right or wrong way to create art in an art therapy session, which I do think is harder to internalize in a group setting than an individual setting, though there are plenty of inner critics out there who will fill that role for people in the absence of a group. The art helps you connect to your own self-expression and creativity, and holds meaning for YOU...that is what we focus on in art therapy. It can be an attitude helpful for anyone who creates art as well. It is hard to shift gears from a performance-based society, but it can be done. Feel free to express yourself!
Friday, October 15, 2021
Art Solitaire
Thursday, October 07, 2021
How Art Therapy Works Especially Well with Trauma
‘Not just for people with big problems’: How art therapy can unlock hidden trauma
From the embarrassment of being reprimanded to the deep scars from sexual assault, art therapy can help people heal. And you don’t need to be a Picasso to benefit from it.
Christy Yip
@ChristyYipCNA
26 Sep 2021 06:15AM
(Updated: 28 Sep 2021 07:44PM)

SINGAPORE: When Deanna (not her real name) first started going for art therapy last year, it was to heal from a bad patch at work and pandemic-related stress. But the sessions also uncovered some hurts she thought she'd recovered from: A bad breakup from nine years ago.
“In those nine years, I’ve been in two other relationships,” she said. “To me and to everyone else around me, I’d moved on already.” Yet, one directive during her session — to draw someone standing in the rain — triggered memories of the fiance who cheated on her. Never mind that it was only a “stickman” that she had drawn.
“It was a very painful memory... A very dark time in my life. It was interesting to me that I (was) somewhat stuck in that time,” said Deanna, 30, who requested anonymity.
The 18 sessions she went through involved doing picture collages, free doodling, plasticine modelling and other art-related activities. They helped bring back memories from her childhood that made her realise why she did not process her breakup well or handle subsequent relationships properly.
Such incidents are what art therapist Buvenasvari Pragasam, or Buvi, calls traumatic events. Trauma is commonly known as an emotional response to a deeply distressing or disturbing event that affects one’s ability to cope, and a quick Google search throws up examples like being in a war zone or natural disaster.
But few know that distress can result from an embarrassing incident in the past, such as being told off by a parent or a faux pas among friends. Art therapy, said Buvenasvari, can provide a “portal” to unlock trauma that people are often not able to verbalise. And art skills are not needed to reap the full benefits of the experience.
Although still sometimes thought of as art jamming or colouring books, art therapy is, in fact, a form of psychotherapy using the creative arts that has been gaining traction in recent years.
It is a “distinct mental health discipline” that should be provided by a trained professional, said Ronald Lay, leader of LASALLE College of the Arts’ Master of Arts Art Therapy programme, whose training includes 816 hours of evidenced supervised clinical placement.
With more research showing how art therapy can support mental wellbeing, more art therapists are being hired as full-time staff in hospitals and voluntary welfare organisations, where previously they were engaged on a contract or project basis, said Ng Jue Ann, secretary of the Art Therapists’ Association of Singapore (ATAS).
Demand for art therapy has risen since the pandemic, especially during the “circuit breaker” period in 2020, said ATAS president Rachel Yang.
Some clients may have tried the more conventional “talk therapy”, or counselling, but may not feel it has helped them beyond a certain point, she said.
WHAT’S ART GOT TO DO WITH TRAUMA?
Art making is an activity that engages the right brain, explained Buvenasvari, and it will allow the individual to bring out memories that have been bottled up.
Studies have shown that traumatic memories are stored in the right brain, which is more intuitive, emotional and visual. In some cases, the right brain shuts down to block out overwhelming trauma in order to protect the individual “so that one can move on”, she said.
The left brain, which affects one’s speech and reasoning, shuts down during the traumatic event and prevents the individual from verbally expressing what has happened, she added.
Sometimes, the left brain, which is the logical, verbal side, might “take over”, causing individuals to over-rationalise and “mask their trauma”.
I don’t ask them what happened. The artwork reveals it.
This was the case for Allan (not his real name) when he first started seeking therapy in late 2019. He realised that he might “naturally leave out certain things (he) did not wish to share”.
But after hearing from a friend who was able to fully express himself “naturally, without realising” in art therapy, Allan decided to try it out. “It didn’t go beyond the third session for me to be convinced that we’re finding out a lot more,” said the 34-year-old, who spoke on condition of anonymity.
This is why art therapists are wary of individuals without proper qualifications who tout their services as art therapy.
“They think that ‘hey, art making is therapeutic’. It is, but when (trauma) comes out… how are you going to support (the person) without causing further damage?” said Buvenasvari, who runs Solace Art Psychotherapy.
Unqualified providers might “re-traumatise” clients if they probe too deeply or “belittle” them by advising, said Yang.
“We are not just painting a pretty picture. It’s a lot of psychodynamic work. Clients see this as a space to talk about deep psychological trauma,” said Yang. “If (providers) are not trained, they may ask the wrong questions, they may get them to do things that will do more harm.”
WHAT CAN ARTWORK SHOW?
One of the benefits of art therapy in addressing trauma is not having to talk about the event itself. Clients like Deanna find it “less intimidating” as she doesn’t have to struggle to “find the words” to express how she feels.
“I don’t ask them what happened. The artwork reveals it,” Buvenasvari said.
It also provides a “safe zone” where the therapist and client can address issues by talking about the artwork and not “directly” to the client. This, she said, lends a degree of separation and can make the client feel more comfortable.
With some simple directions, such as asking her client to freely doodle with a marker, Buvenasvari encourages them to create art intuitively. And from the results, she prompts them to explain what they see or connect with.
In one case, a client saw an elderly woman in her “squiggle drawing” and this reminded her of her late grandmother. Buvenasvari invited her to enhance the image and as the facial features appeared, the client opened up that she never actually processed her grief.
She had been living with the guilt of feeling responsible for her grandmother’s death, Buvenasvari said.
In a session using ink and string to draw freely, another client saw dark roads, and was asked to add on to the imagery. She filled in some white spaces and it eventually revealed lips and a meadow within (which was later inked over), which triggered the memory of a domestic quarrel that she felt she could not speak up about.
Even during the art making process, there are signs Buvenasvari can spot, such as when clients do not ask for help if they spill something. “That would reveal that they don’t have the help-seeking behaviour in real life,” she said.
In one hand-painting session, Allan’s therapist noticed that he did not attempt to use his whole palm, only his fingertips. Was he uncomfortable with trying new things, his therapist asked. “I was very surprised that she was able to tell and identify these things,” he said.
Art therapy helped him to understand why he suffered from low self-confidence. “There may have been a certain someone back in the past that may have affected me… as a kid,” said Allan.
“It took me a while to realise that I may not have moved on, so the way I approached failures was in a very negative manner,” he explained. “I was able to go back and help that kid, (my) 10-year-old self or 15-year-old self and rewire that part of it."
BUILDING UP THE HEALTHY ADULT
Art therapy tries to “build up the healthy adult” by strengthening a person’s identity and addressing the root cause of certain behaviours or tendencies, said Buvenasvari.
“We all have our inner child. If your inner child has wounds, past scars, your inner child remains,” she said. “When you are an adult, sometimes regressing into that inner child is a way to deal with certain things, like throwing a tantrum.”
In Deanna’s case, her “biggest impetus” to sign up for art therapy was people telling her she was “angry all the time”.
“I didn’t like that image of myself,” she said. “Why does everybody think I am this angry, hot-tempered person?”
There are a lot of things that, as we grow up, we keep sweeping under the rug.
During her art therapy sessions, she was able to revisit memories from both her childhood and the recent past. She realised that the root of her issues was feeling neglected as a child.
She often had to care for herself, so anger became her defence mechanism when others tried to care for her. And in her relationships, she always felt that she was not good enough and often argued with her partner, she added.
Beyond having clients express their trauma, Buvenasvari may encourage them to transform their art work, such as by clothing the person they have doodled, or providing a lifeline to, say, a dummy stuck in a glass bottle.
“Part of them is out on the table, and it’s visible, so we are able to move things around, hold it, and feel it tangibly,” she said. “You are literally able to mould yourself, mould the trauma, transform it."
Sometimes when clients are not ready to address the issue, she would turn to “grounding techniques” such as the drawing of repeated patterns or creation of colour swatches. This helps to slow the mind.
These are additional tools that therapists can employ that are not part of art therapy per se, and such activities can also be done at home when one feels overwhelmed, she said.
For Deanna, being able to rip up the watercolour drawing that emerged based on memories of her ex-fiance helped her to “leave this memory behind”. She credits this action for now being able to talk about him without crying.
And now that she knows anger is her defence mechanism, she is able to notice when “(her) heart is beating too fast or (her) thoughts are racing”. Instead of flying into a rage, “I will try to remove myself from the situation, go for a walk or go to a private space”, she said. “I don’t want to hurt myself or the people around me."
MARK OF SUCCESSFUL HEALING
One of the biggest takeaways for Deanna is that therapy is not just “for people with big traumas and big problems”. It can benefit even those with “very simple” problems like difficulty sleeping or overachieving, which could have its roots in childhood trauma.
“There are a lot of things that, as we grow up, we keep sweeping under the rug,” she said.
And while some may fear revisiting skeletons in the closet or reopening a chapter that has supposedly been closed, Deanna thinks “it must be done” or “it will keep popping up in other ways in your life”.
“When things happen to you, it's painful, traumatic,” said Buvenasvari. “Either you suppress it or you think you have healed from it, so you don't want to revisit it. But it’s there. Why is it so difficult for you to look at it again? It means that it’s still affecting you in one way or another.”
Buvenasvari is happiest when she sees clients being able to verbalise their issues without feeling overwhelmed. That, to her, is a mark of “successful healing”.
“When you really process your trauma, it is no longer a skeleton in the closet. It’s just an old T-shirt.”
To find out more about art therapy, visit The Red Pencil (Singapore): https://redpencil.org/singapore/
Where to get help:
Samaritans of Singapore Hotline: 1767 221 4444
Institute of Mental Health’s Helpline: 6389 2222
Singapore Association of Mental Health Helpline: 1800 283 7019
You can also find a list of international helplines here. If someone you know is at immediate risk, call 24-hour emergency medical services.
Friday, October 01, 2021
Wednesday, September 22, 2021
Podcast focuses on Mindfulness and Grief
The act of being mindful in your grieving process is about finding the places where you can create more space to allievate some suffering and to find the places where you can become the person that you want to be now that this has happened.
- Heather Stang
In this episode the tables were turned—Karla Helbert, author of Yoga for Grief & Loss, interviewed me on my own podcast! This gave me an opportunity to share some "behind the scenes" tidbits from the second edition of Mindfulness & Grief, and explain how I developed the eight week program in the first place. Both Karla and I find the concept of Posttraumatic Growth interesting and powerful. While neither of us see grief as a gift— in fact when I hear that I cringe in pain—but we agree that grief changes you. The mindful approach to grief includes both acknowledging what you can not change, and taking charge where you can. This may included applying self-care techniques to your grieving body, mind, and spirit. Not being so hard on yourself by decreasing negative self-talk. Saying no to others when you just don't feel up to socializing. Getting that massage, doing yoga, and finding meditation and relaxation tools that help you get back to sleep. Spending times doing things that sooth your soul, or help you remember and honor your special person. Once you begin to take care of yourself, you may start to find that you are benefiting from this self care and introspection. THIS IS NOT TO SAY YOU ARE BENEFITING FROM GRIEF! Right? You would rather have your special person. You are benefiting from how you are treating yourself, and now seeing the world. In fact, there are five domains of posttruamtic growth (Calhoun & Tedeschi, 2006):
- Increased Appreciation of Personal Strength
- Sense of New Opportunities & Possibilities
- Deepened Sense of Connection & Compassion
- Appreciation of Life in General
- Spiritual or Religious Change
Friday, September 17, 2021
Are Colors Really Emotions?
Evidence That Colors Are Emotions, Not the Properties of Light
Understanding colors is the first step to understanding the nature of things.
Posted September 13, 2021 | Reviewed by Kaja Perina
KEY POINTS
- Colors are deep patterns of emotions and neural connections, not the intrinsic physical properties of light.
- We cannot discern the components that make up color any more than we can discern the ingredients in a breakfast cereal.
- Understanding the subjective nature of rainbows is the first required leap to the true nature of things.
What is red? Green? Blue? This may seem like a question too dumb to merit a moment’s contemplation.
Wednesday, September 15, 2021
Flow State from Creating Art Facilitates Healing
One of the main elements of art therapy and creating art is entering the flow state. That is something that was more recently discovered by my friend Lauren Zalewski / Gratitude Addict and she found this artist who has used her own art as a way of processing her grief from multiple losses. She posted this video of this artist's TED talk on using art to find flow, and how flow helps healing.












