Friday, April 01, 2022

"52-Week Intention Journal" Brings Improvement Through Intentional Living

I got the hard copy of my friend Lauren Blanchard Zalewski's new book "52-Week Intention Journal" in the mail!  I was thrilled to write an endorsement for this wonderful book and was touched that she quoted me in one of her weekly intentions for Creativity.  Thank you so much!

This is a wonderful journal!  Please order your copy here:

https://www.amazon.com/52-Week-Intention-Journal-Reflection-Meaningful/dp/1638078866/ref=asc_df_1638078866/

Wednesday, February 09, 2022

Study Finds Doctors Seeking Mental Health Support During Pandemic

It's encouraging to know that doctors have sought mental health support during the COVID-19 pandemic.  Being on the front lines has its own challenges, and it's good that they are taking the time to care for themselves as well.

https://www.medpagetoday.com/psychiatry/anxietystress/96805

More Docs Turn to Mental Health Support During COVID

— Sharp uptick in outpatient mental health and substance use visits, Canadian study finds

A close up of a female therapist taking notes with her out of focus male patient in the background

A "substantial increase" in physicians in Canada sought mental health support during the COVID-19 pandemic, a new study reported.

Looking at nearly 35,000 practicing physicians in Ontario, the overall annual number of outpatient mental health and substance use visits increased by 27% per 1,000 physicians -- from 816.8 pre-pandemic to 1,037.5 during the pandemic -- reported Daniel T. Myran, MD, MPH, of Ottawa Hospital Research Institute, and colleagues.

This equated to a 13% increase in the rate of mental health and substance use visits per physician during the pandemic (adjusted incident rate ratio [aIRR] 1.13, 95% CI 1.07-1.19), an increase that appeared driven by those who had no prior mental health or substance use history (aIRR 1.72, 95% CI 1.60-1.85), the group wrote in JAMA Network Open.

Overall, the absolute proportion of physicians with one or more mental health and substance use visits within a year increased from 12.3% before to 13.4% during the pandemic (adjusted odds ratio [aOR] 1.08, 95% CI 1.03-1.14).

Increases in mental health visits seemed to be across the board, and didn't differ by sex/gender, age, or urbanicity, the researchers said. Regarding specific types of physicians, psychiatrists saw the highest rate of annual mental health and substance use visits during the pandemic (3,441.5 per 1,000 physicians), whereas surgeons had the lowest rates (370.9 visits per 1,000 physicians).

The author of an accompanying commentary, however, said that despite this sharp uptick in COVID-related mental health visits for physicians, the findings should actually be "somewhat encouraging," since they show that physicians are actively seeking help, support, and the treatment they need.

"Creating additional avenues or opportunities for health care professionals to obtain mental health services will be paramount, while cognizant of the unique challenge surrounding reticence in seeking care within the profession," wrote Bernard P. Chang, MD, PhD, of Columbia University Irving Medical Center in New York.The findings also aren't much of a surprise, since it is known that the pandemic took a heavy toll on the mental health of healthcare workers, Chang added. He also pointed to the benefits of telehealth resources in particular, saying that these discrete and flexible platforms are ideally suited for practicing physicians.

Myran and co-authors agreed, noting that their findings "may also be explained by reduced barriers to access for health care and mental health services among physicians during the COVID-19 pandemic," and that "in response to the pandemic there was a large expansion of virtual care options in Ontario."

"It is possible that physicians with both physical and mental health concerns that predated the pandemic increased their health services use owing to this change (e.g., appointments are easier to schedule and less visible and thus less stigmatized)," the researchers wrote.

The population-based cohort study included 26,266 individual counts of outpatient mental health and substance-use related codes prior to the pandemic, which were compared with 31,936 codes during the first 12 months of the pandemic. This equated to a 22.6% change in codes. The biggest uptick in code type was for adjustment reaction, followed by the cluster code for "anxiety, somatoform, dysthymia, dissociative, or psychosomatic," the researchers reported.

"Future research should focus on longer term outcomes associated with the pandemic and explore associated risk and protective factors for physicians' mental health to better target interventions," the group concluded.

Saturday, January 08, 2022

Sunday, January 02, 2022

Are you a Creative? Guest Blog from a Creativity Coach and Counselor

Recently, I had the privilege to meet a fellow therapist working in the same town where I have private practice. She has a unique approach and helps creative people with therapy and coaching that is tailored for *them.*  Cindy has been kind enough to write a guest post for "Adventures in Art Therapy" so you know there are those out there who can relate with you and help as a fellow creative.

A Letter to Creative People

Dear Artist Drawing in the Margins of your Papers,

Dear College Student at your Easel Late at Night in an Empty Studio,

Dear Musician Rehearsing the Same Two Measures and Stumbling for the Thousandth Time,

I see you.

Dear Little Heart Wearing all the Colors to School because they are in your Soul,

Dear Parents Believing in the Little Hearts and Quietly Worrying if Others Will See the Beauty or Try to Tear them Down,

I see you.

Dear High Schooler Feeling Feelings so Big You Might Burst while Trying to Express yourself through Poetry and Feeling Overwhelmed by What Comes out,

I see you.

Dear High Achieving Adults with High Achieving Jobs with the Weight of the World on your Shoulders but Creativity in your Heart,

Dear Adults who Wonder if it is “Too Late” if you are “Enough” and have Spent your Lives Prioritizing the Needs of others before Yourselves,

I see you.

Dear Parents who Struggled for Acceptance as you Fought for Authenticity in the World and now Ache Watching your Children doing the Same,

I see you.

Dear Creative Professionals Struggling to Break the Surface and Tread Water of Financial Sustainability in Shark Infested Waters for the Sake of your Passions,

I see you.

Dear Writer Staring at a Blinking Cursor as Time Ticks by with a Book in your Heart but no Words in your Mind,

Dear Performer Sitting at Another Casting Call Full of Talent Hoping this is Finally the Time you Stand Out,

I see you.

Dear Painter Scrolling through Hundreds of Accomplished Artists Online while your Canvas Sits Empty or Unfinished Beside You,

Dear Adult who is too Burnt Out by Their Day Job to Make Art but that is all you Really Want to be Doing as the Years Continue to Go By,

I see you.

I see and know your struggles. I know that the world is failing you, overwhelming you and leaving you behind in their efforts to help. I know that your experiences and needs are unique and special.

My experiences were like this, too.  I felt the loneliness and helplessness that come with Creativity. But- I believed in the importance of my creativity.  Just like I believe in the importance of yours.  You have the potential to change the future for the better.  Your future.  The future for all of us. 

Your creativity is everything you need. I have dedicated my career to understanding this to be true. To understanding your needs as a Creative Person, and the inner workings of your Creative Personality. I have built a philosophy to support you in your life. I know you can experience ease and success in your life with the creative gifts you were born with.

The application and work of my philosophy is found in Creativity Counseling and Creativity Coaching.  And I developed it just for Creative People.  Like you.

Creativity Counseling is founded upon your natural strengths as a Creative Person. When you understand your strengths, and harness them in healthy and productive ways, you will live a life filled with ease. 

Your natural creative strengths, when they serve you, are so powerful that as surely as when they are aimless they are destructive, when they are focused in healthy and productive ways, are massively life changing.  

In Creativity Counseling, you become intimately acquainted with and empowered by your Creative Personality.  You learn how powerful emotions, drive towards meaning making and authenticity, and more, are important and stabilizing forces.  You learn practical, real-life tools to embrace, not suppress, how you experience the world. You understand that your key to happiness is true authenticity with yourself and the world around you.

Creativity Coaching is the gift creative flow that comes when you embrace your creative identity fully.  Does your soul demand that you write? Make music? Paint? Dance?  Unlock your true potential by claiming yourself fully as a writer, musician, artist, or dancer.

No more “when’s” or “if’s” or other rules- if your soul demands a creative expression- embrace it with a passion! Experience clarity and ease when you give yourself permission to actualize what your creative soul desires of you. 

This permission is your first step to finding the  “North Star” you will use for making daily decisions in your life. Creative flow comes from the purposefulness in knowing where you are going. It allows you to make aligned decisions that serve your greater purpose, and live a life filled with meaning.  Creative flow builds from regular creative practice as you continue to making meaning from your life experiences with your art.  These are some of the most important aspects of Creativity Coaching!

Dear Creative Looking for Help because you are Hurting,

Dear Creative Looking for Help from Someone who Knows how to help you with your Creativity but also accepts your Creativity Might always be a Struggle that No-one Understands,

I see you.

Sometimes your hurt and struggle are your heart and soul showing up for what truly matters to you in your life.  I believe your creativity truly matters, and is your most important healing and stabilizing force. 

I have experienced this to be true in my own life, in my research, in my education, and with hundreds of Creative People I have listened to and worked with. 

I am passionate about the future of the world as only you, Dear Creative, can dream it.

I know you feel deeply. I dare you not to stop.  It is my passion to help and support you. If you believe I can help, I would love to talk to you about what I can offer. 

Love,

Cindy

(c) 2021 Creatively, LLC, Cindy Cisneros, LCPC-S, LPC, Creativity Coach

www.creativelyllc.com

Cindy Cisneros is a Creativity Coach and Creativity Counselor and Professional Artist in Sykesville, Maryland.  She provides Online Creativity Counseling in Maryland and Virginia, and Online Creativity Coaching throughout the USA, Canada and the UK.





Saturday, January 01, 2022

Friday, December 17, 2021

Gratitude Journal for Teen Boys Hits the Market

Congratulations to my friend Lauren Blanchard Zalewski, whose first book released November 30 on the heels of the Thanksgiving holiday when we focus particularly on gratitude  A great gift for your teenage boy or to use with your clients.  Please check it out, especially during this holiday season!

Read more behind the story of Lauren's book here.


From Lauren:

**Have you ordered your copy of my new book "5-Minute Gratitude Journal for Teen Boys" yet?**

Unlike other GRATITUDE journals on the market, this book contains 120 pages of unique topics designed to help today's teen find inspiration, appreciation, and their personal greatness through gratitude.

Gratitude is a powerful tool for teens dealing with school stress, friend drama, and the pressures of social media. Taking time to focus on the good stuff can boost their self-confidence and help them achieve their goals. This gratitude journal provides easy exercises that will help teen boys commit to gratitude and put them in charge of their life and emotions.

With the release date on November 30, each order helps raise the visibility of my book on Amazon to ensure that it gets into the hands of anyone looking for a way to help the teen in their life feel happier and more motivated.

Thanks for your support!!!

To ORDER your copy, go to: https://amzn.to/3qrig9p


Wednesday, December 15, 2021

Teen Mental Health Society Hosts Lacy Mucklow for Art Therapy Workshop

Happy to be presenting an art therapy workshop to the Teen Mental Health Society this weekend!  Thanks to Aayushi Kulsunge for inviting me to contribute a small part to this great organization she founded to reach teens with mental health support! 

REGISTER HERE

https://lnkd.in/gb-fnX8p






Wednesday, November 24, 2021

Wake Up with Gratitude Podcast Features Lacy Mucklow

Many thanks to Julie Boyer, Gratitude Guru at #WakeUpwithGratitudePodcast for having me on her show!  I am grateful to be your guest, talking about art therapy and more!

Episode #151 – How Does Creating Art Give Us a Way to Deal with Trauma? (Lacy Mucklow)

Have you ever used coloring books for adults? Chances are you might have colored in one of Lacy Mucklow’s books! Lacy is a registered, board certified, and licensed Art Therapist in the Washington, DC area. She’s also the bestselling author of the Color Me Series, including Color Me Grateful. Her books have been translated into more than 15 languages. We talk about what Art Therapy is, how she became an author and why you should never give up on your blog!

Apple podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/151-how-does-creating-art-give-us-a-way-to-deal/id1490786349?i=1000540506997

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5RxwGyXQ5lOWf6clGpckLQ?si=VJhK9j1gTh6cZ_1Gj6CUzA 



Tuesday, November 23, 2021

The Healing Power of Art - Healing Arts Exhibit

It's amazing to see all the artwork submitted for the Healing Arts Exhibit, hosted annually at Walter Reed by the Arts in Health program.

Healing Is An Art, Art is Healing: Exhibit Highlights the Healing Power of Art

Photo By Bernard Little | Service members look at art included in the Healing Arts Exhibit on display throughout... read more


BETHESDA, MD, UNITED STATES 
11.01.2021 
Story by Bernard Little 
 Walter Reed National Military Medical Center 

Healing is an art, and art is healing was the sentiments shared among those who attended the opening ceremony for the 18th Annual Healing Arts Exhibit at Walter Reed National Military Medical Center Oct. 27. The exhibit showcases artworks by military members, veterans, retirees, family members, WRNMMC staff, volunteers and others, many who received their health care at the medical center. The exhibit will be on display in the pavilion between the America Building and the America Garage at WRNMMC throughout November, Warrior Care Month. 

U.S. Public Health Service Capt. Moira McGuire, chief of the Arts in Health Program at WRNMMC, has been one of the coordinators for the exhibit since it began. “It’s amazing to think we have been able to put on this exhibit for 18 years,” she said. While there’s been some changes, McGuire said what hasn’t changed is the enthusiasm and excitement on the faces of people and what they say as they go through the exhibit. McGuire, also assistant chief of Integrated Health Services at WRNMMC, added it has always been a team effort to put on the exhibit, supported and nurtured by the John P. Murtha Cancer Center at WRNMMC and the arts and health activities at the medical center. 

 The annual exhibit began as part of the medical center’s observance of Breast Cancer Awareness Month because most of the artwork was produced by breast cancer patients. The idea for the exhibit came when the hematology/oncology staff discovered the artwork patients were creating while being treated for breast cancer. Over the years, participation in the art show expanded to include the works by other patients, family members, staff and more. 

Brig. Gen. Jack Davis, WRNMMC director, added in addition to Breast Cancer Awareness Month, October is also National Arts and Humanities Month. “As the flagship of military medicine, we have a duty in leading the country in developing new and innovative resources to meet the challenging needs of our military community. These innovations include the emerging field of art and health.” He added the arts are “an [integral] and necessary component of the hospital environment to promote and maintain wellness.” 

Navy Capt. Carlos Williams, director of the National Intrepid Center of Excellence, agreed. NICoE, a part of WRNMMC, works to advance the clinical care, diagnosis, research and education of those in the military community with traumatic brain injuries and psychological health conditions, frequently called “the invisible wounds of war.” NICoE’s art therapy program, which has received national attention, started in 2010 and helps beneficiaries heal from the traumatic conditions, as well as express themselves and their emotions through art. “NICoE’s goal is to support people in holistically healing, and the creative arts program helps in accomplishing this mission,” Williams said. 

Louis Celli, an Army retiree, agreed. “We didn’t talk about our feelings during my generation of service. I didn’t understand what art therapy was, probably like the rest of the guys in my squad, platoon, company, and battalion. The evolution of the services to now recognize how important these types of programs are is instrumental in the healing process that goes on in the veterans we served with and interact with every single day, said Celli, who served as director of veterans affairs and rehabilitation with the American Legion. 

WRNMMC Command Master Chief Trey Hauptmann said art has always been a passion of his, “whether it was cooking and making the plates look appealing so my kids would eat, [or painting]. To actually spend time and create an emotion out of something, is what I’ve been always trying to do and what you will see in my art. It’s not one thing that I want you to see. I want you to interpret what you want to see. It’s your perspective that makes art great. It’s your perspective that makes the meaning come alive in your heart, your mind and your soul.” 

Veterans and former patients of WRNMMC affiliated with Uniting Us, a group focused on sharing the empowering quality of art, discussed their works and what inspires it during the exhibit’s opening ceremony. 

“Art has been a real gift to me,” said Dr. Alicia Christy, a retired Army colonel. “Art has allowed me to celebrate the heroes in my life,” she added. Christy’s portraits of “women who paid the ultimate sacrifice in the Iraq and Afghanistan Wars” are part of the Healing Arts Exhibit at WRNMMC. Her artwork has also been used in medical publications, and Colin Powell owned a portrait she did of him. 

Steve Alpert, a professional artist and veteran art mentor, taught art therapy classes at WRNMMC. He said his teaching philosophy is, “Artists make art to learn the truth about themselves. It’s about storytelling and your personal story, but no one has to know it’s your personal story.” 

April Goodwin-Gill, also an Army veteran, agreed. “The art I do has always kept me grounded. Sometimes, suicide is right around the door and I have to talk myself off the ledge. The way I do it is with my art. Thank God for the arts. Right when it seems like the ship is sinking, God will show me another way to be able to express myself, either through my paintings, dolls, stories and plays. I have to be able to express myself.” 

In his presidential proclamation for National Arts and Humanities Month, President Joe Biden stated, “We celebrate the power of the arts and humanities to provide solace, understanding and healing. We recognize the ability of the arts and humanities to amplify important and diverse voices and messages. We reflect on the fact that, as we have struggled with isolation, anxiety, and the loss of loved ones, we have turned to music and dance, literature and poetry, and philosophy and history to bring us together and help us persevere through, and grapple with, our current moment.” Biden added, “From our nation’s earliest days, we have recognized the arts as a foundation of our republic. As George Washington wrote in 1781, ‘The arts and sciences [are] essential to the prosperity of the state and to the ornament and happiness of human life.’ Today, any American, regardless of their background, can create art and turn to it for hope, acceptance and inspiration.” 

For more information about the Arts in Health Program at WRNMMC, contact Capt. Moira McGuire at 301-319-8755.

Wednesday, November 17, 2021

The Art Therapy Program at NDMU

I'm so happy to be a supervisor for NDMU's graduate art therapy program. My intern Em is a great ambassador for art therapy, and she is a wonderful spokesperson to be featured in the video for their program.

https://www.linkedin.com/posts/notre-dame-of-maryland-university_art-therapy-at-ndmu-activity-6861689987704909824-nmtv


Sunday, October 24, 2021

Color Me Books Translated into Multiple Languages

I am still amazed at what has come from the coloring books that I wrote with Angela's illustrations and how global they really became.  From what I know, the books have been translated into numerous languages, including the following:

Color Me Calm:

French, German, Korean, French, Arabic, Norwegian, Chinese (Simplified and Complex characters), Bulgarian, Russian, Japanese, Portuguese, Swedish, Spanish, Estonian

Color Me Happy:

Korean, French, Bulgarian, Portuguese, Chinese, Spanish, Swedish, French

Color Me Stress-Free:

French, Chinese, Norwegian, Spanish, Swedish, German

A couple of days ago, I got two boxes from my publishing company with some editions of these translated books.  It's hard to describe the feeling to see your words translated into multiple languages around the world.  

Please comment on the pictures below if they are in your native language!  I would love to hear from you!

Swedish


Spanish


Portuguese


Norwegian


German


French (Canada and France)


Estonian


Chinese


Bulgarian and Russian


Australian English


Tuesday, October 19, 2021

Artists are not Athletes

This is something that especially applies to art therapy. We talk about it often in session, especially in groups where people tend to compare their creative output with others in the group. Artistic skill is not needed to benefit from art therapy, and we work a lot on not putting value judgments on what they create - for others or themselves.  People have all kinds of various experiences, talents, exposure, and interest levels in art, and each piece people create is unique and individualized to them.  There is no right or wrong way to create art in an art therapy session, which I do think is harder to internalize in a group setting than an individual setting, though there are plenty of inner critics out there who will fill that role for people in the absence of a group.  The art helps you connect to your own self-expression and creativity, and holds meaning for YOU...that is what we focus on in art therapy.  It can be an attitude helpful for anyone who creates art as well.  It is hard to shift gears from a performance-based society, but it can be done.  Feel free to express yourself!



Friday, October 15, 2021

Art Solitaire

For those of you who like Solitaire, Solitaired has created a new digital deck of cards with classic art paintings for their cards.  It could be a mindful time to take a break and learn about artists and some of their famous works as you play!

Check out the deck here:  https://solitaired.com/?deck=Art



Thursday, October 07, 2021

How Art Therapy Works Especially Well with Trauma

I came across this article about art therapy that I found to be very good and describes well how art therapy works, especially with trauma. I hope it is a helpful read!


‘Not just for people with big problems’: How art therapy can unlock hidden trauma

From the embarrassment of being reprimanded to the deep scars from sexual assault, art therapy can help people heal. And you don’t need to be a Picasso to benefit from it.

Christy Yip

@ChristyYipCNA

26 Sep 2021 06:15AM

(Updated: 28 Sep 2021 07:44PM)

The Solace Art Psychotherapy team. (Photo: Buvenasvari Pragasam)

SINGAPORE: When Deanna (not her real name) first started going for art therapy last year, it was to heal from a bad patch at work and pandemic-related stress. But the sessions also uncovered some hurts she thought she'd recovered from: A bad breakup from nine years ago.

“In those nine years, I’ve been in two other relationships,” she said. “To me and to everyone else around me, I’d moved on already.” Yet, one directive during her session — to draw someone standing in the rain — triggered memories of the fiance who cheated on her. Never mind that it was only a “stickman” that she had drawn. 

“It was a very painful memory... A very dark time in my life. It was interesting to me that I (was) somewhat stuck in that time,” said Deanna, 30, who requested anonymity.

The 18 sessions she went through involved doing picture collages, free doodling, plasticine modelling and other art-related activities. They helped bring back memories from her childhood that made her realise why she did not process her breakup well or handle subsequent relationships properly.

Such incidents are what art therapist Buvenasvari Pragasam, or Buvi, calls traumatic events. Trauma is commonly known as an emotional response to a deeply distressing or disturbing event that affects one’s ability to cope, and a quick Google search throws up examples like being in a war zone or natural disaster.

But few know that distress can result from an embarrassing incident in the past, such as being told off by a parent or a faux pas among friends. Art therapy, said Buvenasvari, can provide a “portal” to unlock trauma that people are often not able to verbalise. And art skills are not needed to reap the full benefits of the experience.

Although still sometimes thought of as art jamming or colouring books, art therapy is, in fact, a form of psychotherapy using the creative arts that has been gaining traction in recent years.

It is a “distinct mental health discipline” that should be provided by a trained professional, said Ronald Lay, leader of LASALLE College of the Arts’ Master of Arts Art Therapy programme, whose training includes 816 hours of evidenced supervised clinical placement.

With more research showing how art therapy can support mental wellbeing, more art therapists are being hired as full-time staff in hospitals and voluntary welfare organisations, where previously they were engaged on a contract or project basis, said Ng Jue Ann, secretary of the Art Therapists’ Association of Singapore (ATAS).

Demand for art therapy has risen since the pandemic, especially during the “circuit breaker” period in 2020, said ATAS president Rachel Yang.

Some clients may have tried the more conventional “talk therapy”, or counselling, but may not feel it has helped them beyond a certain point, she said.

WHAT’S ART GOT TO DO WITH TRAUMA?

Art making is an activity that engages the right brain, explained Buvenasvari, and it will allow the individual to bring out memories that have been bottled up.

Studies have shown that traumatic memories are stored in the right brain, which is more intuitive, emotional and visual. In some cases, the right brain shuts down to block out overwhelming trauma in order to protect the individual “so that one can move on”, she said. 

The left brain, which affects one’s speech and reasoning, shuts down during the traumatic event and prevents the individual from verbally expressing what has happened, she added.

Sometimes, the left brain, which is the logical, verbal side, might “take over”, causing individuals to over-rationalise and “mask their trauma”.  

I don’t ask them what happened. The artwork reveals it.

This was the case for Allan (not his real name) when he first started seeking therapy in late 2019. He realised that he might “naturally leave out certain things (he) did not wish to share”.

But after hearing from a friend who was able to fully express himself “naturally, without realising” in art therapy, Allan decided to try it out. “It didn’t go beyond the third session for me to be convinced that we’re finding out a lot more,” said the 34-year-old, who spoke on condition of anonymity.  

This is why art therapists are wary of individuals without proper qualifications who tout their services as art therapy.

“They think that ‘hey, art making is therapeutic’. It is, but when (trauma) comes out… how are you going to support (the person) without causing further damage?” said Buvenasvari, who runs Solace Art Psychotherapy.

Unqualified providers might “re-traumatise” clients if they probe too deeply or “belittle” them by advising, said Yang. 

“We are not just painting a pretty picture. It’s a lot of psychodynamic work. Clients see this as a space to talk about deep psychological trauma,” said Yang. “If (providers) are not trained, they may ask the wrong questions, they may get them to do things that will do more harm.”

WHAT CAN ARTWORK SHOW?

One of the benefits of art therapy in addressing trauma is not having to talk about the event itself. Clients like Deanna find it “less intimidating” as she doesn’t have to struggle to “find the words” to express how she feels. 

“I don’t ask them what happened. The artwork reveals it,” Buvenasvari said.

It also provides a “safe zone” where the therapist and client can address issues by talking about the artwork and not “directly” to the client. This, she said, lends a degree of separation and can make the client feel more comfortable.

With some simple directions, such as asking her client to freely doodle with a marker, Buvenasvari encourages them to create art intuitively. And from the results, she prompts them to explain what they see or connect with.

In one case, a client saw an elderly woman in her “squiggle drawing” and this reminded her of her late grandmother. Buvenasvari invited her to enhance the image and as the facial features appeared, the client opened up that she never actually processed her grief. 

She had been living with the guilt of feeling responsible for her grandmother’s death, Buvenasvari said.

In a session using ink and string to draw freely, another client saw dark roads, and was asked to add on to the imagery. She filled in some white spaces and it eventually revealed lips and a meadow within (which was later inked over), which triggered the memory of a domestic quarrel that she felt she could not speak up about. 

Even during the art making process, there are signs Buvenasvari can spot, such as when clients do not ask for help if they spill something. “That would reveal that they don’t have the help-seeking behaviour in real life,” she said. 

In one hand-painting session, Allan’s therapist noticed that he did not attempt to use his whole palm, only his fingertips. Was he uncomfortable with trying new things, his therapist asked. “I was very surprised that she was able to tell and identify these things,” he said. 

Art therapy helped him to understand why he suffered from low self-confidence. “There may have been a certain someone back in the past that may have affected me… as a kid,” said Allan. 

“It took me a while to realise that I may not have moved on, so the way I approached failures was in a very negative manner,” he explained. “I was able to go back and help that kid, (my) 10-year-old self or 15-year-old self and rewire that part of it."

BUILDING UP THE HEALTHY ADULT

Art therapy tries to “build up the healthy adult” by strengthening a person’s identity and addressing the root cause of certain behaviours or tendencies, said Buvenasvari.

“We all have our inner child. If your inner child has wounds, past scars, your inner child remains,” she said. “When you are an adult, sometimes regressing into that inner child is a way to deal with certain things, like throwing a tantrum.”

In Deanna’s case, her “biggest impetus” to sign up for art therapy was people telling her she was “angry all the time”. 

“I didn’t like that image of myself,” she said. “Why does everybody think I am this angry, hot-tempered person?”

There are a lot of things that, as we grow up, we keep sweeping under the rug.

During her art therapy sessions, she was able to revisit memories from both her childhood and the recent past. She realised that the root of her issues was feeling neglected as a child. 

She often had to care for herself, so anger became her defence mechanism when others tried to care for her. And in her relationships, she always felt that she was not good enough and often argued with her partner, she added. 

Beyond having clients express their trauma, Buvenasvari may encourage them to transform their art work, such as by clothing the person they have doodled, or providing a lifeline to, say, a dummy stuck in a glass bottle. 

“Part of them is out on the table, and it’s visible, so we are able to move things around, hold it, and feel it tangibly,” she said. “You are literally able to mould yourself, mould the trauma, transform it."

Sometimes when clients are not ready to address the issue, she would turn to “grounding techniques” such as the drawing of repeated patterns or creation of colour swatches. This helps to slow the mind. 

These are additional tools that therapists can employ that are not part of art therapy per se, and such activities can also be done at home when one feels overwhelmed, she said. 

For Deanna, being able to rip up the watercolour drawing that emerged based on memories of her ex-fiance helped her to “leave this memory behind”. She credits this action for now being able to talk about him without crying. 

And now that she knows anger is her defence mechanism, she is able to notice when “(her) heart is beating too fast or (her) thoughts are racing”. Instead of flying into a rage, “I will try to remove myself from the situation, go for a walk or go to a private space”, she said. “I don’t want to hurt myself or the people around me."

MARK OF SUCCESSFUL HEALING

One of the biggest takeaways for Deanna is that therapy is not just “for people with big traumas and big problems”. It can benefit even those with “very simple” problems like difficulty sleeping or overachieving, which could have its roots in childhood trauma. 

“There are a lot of things that, as we grow up, we keep sweeping under the rug,” she said. 

And while some may fear revisiting skeletons in the closet or reopening a chapter that has supposedly been closed, Deanna thinks “it must be done” or “it will keep popping up in other ways in your life”.   

“When things happen to you, it's painful, traumatic,” said Buvenasvari. “Either you suppress it or you think you have healed from it, so you don't want to revisit it. But it’s there. Why is it so difficult for you to look at it again? It means that it’s still affecting you in one way or another.” 

Buvenasvari is happiest when she sees clients being able to verbalise their issues without feeling overwhelmed. That, to her, is a mark of “successful healing”. 

“When you really process your trauma, it is no longer a skeleton in the closet. It’s just an old T-shirt.”

To find out more about art therapy, visit The Red Pencil (Singapore): https://redpencil.org/singapore/ 

Where to get help:

Samaritans of Singapore Hotline: 1767 221 4444

Institute of Mental Health’s Helpline: 6389 2222

Singapore Association of Mental Health Helpline: 1800 283 7019

You can also find a list of international helplines here. If someone you know is at immediate risk, call 24-hour emergency medical services.

Wednesday, September 22, 2021

Podcast focuses on Mindfulness and Grief

I came across this podcast on Mindfulness and Grief that you may find helpful for yourself, someone you love, or a client.

Meditation for grief can help you cope with the pain and overwhelming emotions of loss, provide much needed self-care, as well as find new footing in your very changed world. It may even lead to posttraumatic growth. Author Heather Stang discusses the second edition of her book, Mindfulness & Grief, with guest host Karla Helbert.

The act of being mindful in your grieving process is about finding the places where you can create more space to allievate some suffering and to find the places where you can become the person that you want to be now that this has happened.

- Heather Stang

In this episode the tables were turned—Karla Helbert, author of Yoga for Grief & Loss, interviewed me on my own podcast! This gave me an opportunity to share some "behind the scenes" tidbits from the second edition of Mindfulness & Grief, and explain how I developed the eight week program in the first place. Both Karla and I find the concept of Posttraumatic Growth interesting and powerful.  While neither of us see grief as a gift— in fact when I hear that I cringe in pain—but we agree that grief changes you.  The mindful approach to grief includes both acknowledging what you can not change, and taking charge where you can. This may included applying self-care techniques to your grieving body, mind, and spirit. Not being so hard on yourself by decreasing negative self-talk. Saying no to others when you just don't feel up to socializing. Getting that massage, doing yoga, and finding meditation and relaxation tools that help you get back to sleep. Spending times doing things that sooth your soul, or help you remember and honor your special person. Once you begin to take care of yourself,  you may start to find that you are benefiting from this self care and introspection. THIS IS NOT TO SAY YOU ARE BENEFITING FROM GRIEF! Right? You would rather have your special person. You are benefiting from how you are treating yourself, and now seeing the world. In fact, there are five domains of posttruamtic growth (Calhoun & Tedeschi, 2006):

  • Increased Appreciation of Personal Strength
  • Sense of New Opportunities & Possibilities
  • Deepened Sense of Connection & Compassion
  • Appreciation of Life in General
  • Spiritual or Religious Change
Please consider adding the second edition of Mindfulness & Grief to your collection, and leave a review on Amazon if you already have a copy. I tried to write the book I wanted to read, and I feel the updates in the new edition are helpful. Thank you for listening!